Let’s talk about feeding our families.  I want to make it perfectly clear that this is something that challenges me at home too. I have an almost 10 year old and an 8 year old with autism and they both have their opinions about what we should be eating. But here is my rule; it is my job as the parent to decide what we are eating, when we eat and where we eat it. It is the kids' responsibility to decide how much they are going to eat. This is called the division of food responsibilities and I challenge you to respect the division.